Each year, National Invisible Chronic Illness Awareness Week is observedto educate the public and raise awareness
about invisible illnesses. One of the blogging activities this year is a “meme,” 30 Things About My Invisible Illness You May Not Know. So, here’s my meme…So that my readers can better understand who I am, maybe you also suffer and used alcohol to cope. I felt compelled to post this:
- The illnesses I live with are: Migraine disease, IBS, chronic body pain, hypoglycemia and a few others.
- I was diagnosed with it in the year: 2003.
- But I had symptoms since: 1987 (4 years old)
- The biggest adjustment I’ve had to make is: Keeping medication on me at all times, avoiding food and environmental triggers.
- Most people assume: that Migraines are “just headaches” or no big deal just deal with it.
- The hardest part about mornings is: waking up with pain
- My favorite medical TV show is: Greys anatomy
- A gadget I couldn’t live without is: my computer and my smart phone. I track all my migraines with an app on my phone.
- The hardest part about nights is: occasional insomnia.
- Each day I take: 8-10 pills and nose spray
- Regarding alternative treatments I: use meditation, heat/cold therapy.
- If I had to choose between an invisible illness or visible I would choose: visible.
- Regarding working and career: I can work from home when I can’t make it to the office.
- People would be surprised to know: that I am in some type of pain every second of every minute of every day.
- The hardest thing to accept about my new reality has been: limitations.
- Something I never thought I could do with my illness that I did was: make a difference for others with the disease.
- The commercials about my illness: are far and few between and inadequate.
- Something I really miss doing since I was diagnosed is: I was diagnosed at 20 years old with migraines, but have had then since I was 4 – so not sure what I have missed other than a lot of work days. IBS has made me change my diet. I have missed social events and work events due to overall body pain.
- It was really hard to have to give up: I had to give up eating, smelling or being around chocolate at all.
- A new hobby I have taken up since my diagnosis is: Not much I can do while a migraine is in full swing. But while being laid up in bed with other pain or unable to sleep – I like to blog, read, crochet, paint, cross stitch…lots of different things. I like to play online games too once in a while.
- If I could have one day of feeling normal again I would: not know what to do with myself. better yet – who’s normal are we talking about? All I have ever known is this pain.
- My illness has taught me: Not give up, that I am not alone and that the ones who love me really do care.
- Want to know a secret? One thing people say that gets under my skin is: people thinking I can take a couple of Tylenol and “get over” a Migraine.
- But I love it when people: actually ask questions and want to understand.
- My favorite motto, scripture, quote that gets me through tough times is: Can only live life on life’s terms – can only live one day at a time – Let go and let God – turn things over to a higher power, or a power greater than myself.
- When someone is diagnosed I’d like to tell them: learn all you can about this disease, then take charge of your health, your own health care and pain management plan.
- Something that has surprised me about living with an illness is: how many people come up with “cure” scams to make money from us.
- The nicest thing someone did for me when I wasn’t feeling well was: my husband rubs my back and my neck for me once in a while. He tries to keep the house quiet and dark for me.
- I’m involved with Invisible Illness Week because: if we’re to make progress, we must speak out and keep speaking out to educate people.
- The fact that you read this list makes me feel: that we CAN make a difference!
It means a lot to me to be able to share with others the pain and the suffering that I live with every day in the hopes that maybe someone will find in it the comfort that they are not alone. Just as with the openness that I have with the AA and AL-alanon aspects of our life, migraines and chronic pain is something I wish to be open about. Through numbers we gain strength and hope. Migraine sufferers have a high subside rate, its is hard to get health care professionals to understand that not all chronic pain sufferers are pill seeking. Most of us would rather have a treatment plant than be drugged. Those who seek only to drug themselves then live life might have started out this way, but through desperation have reached a point in which being unable to feel anything is better that feeling pain. At least to me , if I can still feel – I am still alive. It might be pain, it might be dark, lonely and terrifying, but I have faith that when the clouds part, I will have sunshine – even if its for a brief moment.
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Great post…thanks for the pingback. I was just sitting down to write today’s post, but after reading this I realize that I should be making people aware of what this week is too. Thank you for that. I’ve had so much going on I didn’t even realize it…how sad! I look forward to reading more from you. Your strength and devotion to advocacy are refreshing.
I used to have Cluster Headaches, which is a type of migraine (I think) and they were so bad it was like getting hit with Thor’s hammer. Every time I got one I ended up at the ER and getting shot full of medication. They vanished as suddenly as they began after about 10 years. My daughter is not so lucky. She has had migraines since she was just a kid. Like you, tylenol does not touch this stuff! Sometimes she will respond to hands-on reiki, but often times not. She has to avoid splenda and a few other things.
There are many invisible illnesses. I developed fibromyalgia after a car accident. Who knew a car accident could trigger that sort of pain? I’m fortunate that a mild medication controls the pain since I didn’t want the heavy-duty meds they generally use.
I have friends with celiac and no one who does not have it seems to understand how bad it is for them to have gluten and it is everywhere.
Its hard to live with pain that dr’s can not explain or find the cause of. My migraines are all over the charts. I have lived the last 6 years of my life with a constant pain in my head, that can be as low as a 1 or as high as a 10 and be a full blown migraine. My husband finally understands. He says he can’t fathom how i live with this daily pain. Its become such a part of me that i know nothing else. Doesn’t mean i am willing to live with it forever. I am just dealing the best i can, one day at a time. Every medication works a little better than the last. Each treatment works a little better than the last. One day i will find the combination that works. Till then i keep my head up and live life on life’s terms. One day at a time, one moment at a time.